If you see a mushroom and you eat becuase you DON'T think it's poisonous and find it is once you've eaten it. It doesn't mean you're not going to suffer the consequences. In a way isn't this what happened when H says "it just happened" yes maybe it did just happen, but it doesn't make it right or that you're not going to suffer the consequences. I hope I stated this clearly, it makes sense to me, but in writing...well...?

I applaud that statement as I just heard that myself a couple of weeks ago,and this after my W practically killing herself to spend time Iming me(giving me bit of hope,HA!!!!),what a joke it is,and she will suffer these very consequences!!!!!! Shame on these people!!!! Do they really think we are THAT stupid??? OTO