Thanks for visiting. It seems when they say "it just happened," it is not quite true. They allowed it to happen. It was a conscious decision on their part to have an A. My H's OW told me that. Said they did not mean for it to happen. Hah!!! She was the one who actively pursued my H and my H allowed a third party to come in between our M. Choices made, good and bad...but there is always a consequence, good or bad. Your H is still like a belligerent teenager who does not want to be accountable to anybody. Hopefully, he will wake up soon and you don't have to deal with crazy OW anymore. Just keep your focus on you and your S. I know easier said than done.
Your H at least has been spending time with your S fishing and stuff. You are right, you will need a lot of patience just so you would not choke him. I see you like pansies. Mine came back after being buried in snow over the winter. But now that it is getting hotter, they will wilt real soon. I will have company over the weekend. He is the brother of my best friend. I did not have the heart to tell her no. But the brother is a womanizer. He is bringing in his No. 3 who he had a child with a long time ago (18 yrs old) and is now a widow. No. 3"s other child is 10 yrs old. Hopefully, they will cancel at the last minute. I would be ecstatic about that. We will see.
