Originally Posted by wooba
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Originally Posted by HopeCA
I feel good that I got that over with. And thrown by the way it went over. Trying to focus on the first part.

He felt trapped, you set him a bit more free, and he didn't like it. Typical walkaway spouse, no? You just gave him the last things of his in your home and his biggest concern was *storage*. How frustrating.


It’s amazing how WAS follow the same playbook. Mine also asked me to renew our lease so he could continue “storing” his things here. Not only do they have a timeline as slow as a snail but their indecisiveness also is totally puzzling to me.

Hope, your response to him was perfect! When that day comes for me I hope I can say those words “I don’t want to store them for you” as easy as you did it.

Ditto for my H....he thought I was providing a storage solution , all because he didn’t need all his stuff right now. I told him to look online if he needed storage facilities.
You did the right thing and I hope you feel good for it!
I’m sorry you’re in this sitch however, I just read most of this thread to try and catch up. frown. Sending hugs


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020