I may have to delay my support hearing/divorce until after he's back working at full capacity. At the moment H doesn't know I'm divorcing him so this decision is mine. Something to discuss with my L once court is open again. People can't believe I haven't told him but I think its in my best interest to stay quiet. We're NC so it's not that hard. I figure it's best to let him stay in his fantasy bubble because it keeps him cooperative.
He hasn't seen D17 in almost a year (her choice). S19 has lost all respect for him so doesn't see him much. He has to bribe D14 to spend time with him and she lives there. So yeah he wrecked his relationship with his kids too.
