Thanks for answers everyone! Good input. Short update, bc at work.
Just sent W a text with her monthly "bill". "I was wondering if I could pay less for utilities now that I dont live at home all the time? I understand if its not ok since you think we should split everything" Really?!!
I havnt responded. Will probably respond something like: Its you choice not to live here.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021