Quote: Why couldn't that statement have meant that of course not you didn't wash my pants because that would just be my luck
Good call Laurie...I never would have interpreted it that way until you just know pointed it out. You are so right I took it personally. Probably because of all the work I did do around the house this weekend and when he said I didn't wash his pants to me he was saying "I can tell you did a lot around the house this weekend, but I would never say anything to you or thank you. It's easier to find something that you didn't do than it is for me to thank you for anything you do for me" or I could be way off base. Maybe H just has a hard time finding any happiness in his life or living any happiness for too long, it's not comfortable for him.
H was up early this morning and off to work early. I think he's been having a hard time sleeping lately. Part of it is because his body aches. He was taking medication for his arthritis but it's been the major cause of his stomach problems. He hasn't taken it for a week and feels more normal, but his bones and joints ache that much more.