Cathy,

You took things to personally. Why couldn't that statement have meant that of course not you didn't wash my pants because that would just be my luck. Why did have to mean that you don't do enough? You know how some people will that is just he way my luck is running today.

Remember you are dealing with Satan who likes to put negative thoughts into your head automatically so that you will stay angry and your husband and scrutinize everything that he says and does. That you will take all of his actions and words personally.

I'm beginning to understand more and more what detachment means.

Laurie