CW -

I'm being too accomadating.

I am being too fearful of the outcome.

I started out being cool that when he said he needed his ID I replied over an hour later with just OK.

That was good. But once I agreed he started snowballing with this that and the other... I again tried to play it cool by stating this was a very busy time let's try for the weekend... AGAIN I know I did well.

But more snowballing from him and it was game over for me... I reacted by baulking and saying no... and he upped his game.

He is still asking about the financial order. He is expecting me to lift it. Of course I can use the excuse that courts are closed but then he told me to talk to the broker. I could use the excuse he is out of town due to spring break this week.

I tried telling him that whatever money he uses before assest are divided that I would then own this house with him. That is what my atty is telling me. She is stating he not use any marital assets to buy this house. I'm not sure what his free atty is telling him.

If he wants out so badly go rent a 2 bedroom apartment so he is not so cramped/complaining about her 1 bedroom apt. Who goes out and buys a house when nothing has been settled with the court??

When I brought it up last night about how he can't sell the boat right now he seemed confused. Like we have already divided up assets verbally and its all a done deal. He lectured me on why legal s wasn't an option because I would be unable to sell the house during that time but suddenly he can sell the boat?

Is this just more of the fantasyland that WH live in?

I'm not lifting the financial order.