Just to add a data point.
My kids, 3 and 5, definitely watch TV(netflix,youtube, public TV) ~2 hrs per day.
Some days less, some days twice as much.
I know it it not ideal but I realized all those demands you put in yourself as a parent these days are counter-productive.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021