Just to add a data point. My kids, 3 and 5, definitely watch TV(netflix,youtube, public TV) ~2 hrs per day. Some days less, some days twice as much. I know it it not ideal but I realized all those demands you put in yourself as a parent these days are counter-productive.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021