Hi Cardinal! I’ve been gone for awhile and am slowly catching up with everybody and their current situations. Huge (((((hugs))))) to you. I can see in your last few posts that things have become difficult due to proximity with the live in MLCer ...you know how much I can relate. Things have definitely become more difficult with being very limited in getting out of the house and GAL that way anyway. It’s easy for us to let the focus drift back to the stranger in our house and all their crazy behaviour when it’s in our face all the time. I too am struggling with how happy and content he behaves ...whistling and singing to himself CONSTANTLY. I don’t get it. Is it part of MLC behaviour- their mask of ”everything is great, everything is fine, everything is normal?” I hate that you can’t escape the loud game play and phone calls...I can relate again. I’m working from home right now and the other day he was playing a game so loud that people on the conference call were asking who is being shot at???!!!!! I think I remember you saying that the weather is ok where you are and that you garden....can you spend more time out in your yard? How do you remove yourself from his constant upsetting display of behaviour at least for parts of the day?
I don’t have much to offer advice wise but I’m hear for hugs and understanding ....you still got this even when you don’t feel you do...you do ...more than you know. (((Cardinal)))
