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I think it was a flashback and I’m wondering if anyone here has had those kind of thoughts ... ?

All the time! It happens just an hour ago. D18 called me on the cell. Didn't know I was working tonite. Was wondering where her mom was as CAW had just called her 5 minutes ago and when D18 called back there was no answer. Called me to see if we had gone out together. When I told her I was at work, she asked, "Wonder where Mom could be?" GUESS WHAT POPPED INTO MY HEAD??!!

Cathy, I know for me, until I have some form of confirmation that the A is really over or better yet that CAW no longer has a desire to b with OM, those thoughts will probably never go away. In the meantime all we can do is wait, I suppose.

I hope it does get easier for you.

'til later,
KAW