Digesting the last of the texts

H: arguing with me and putting me down is not amicable.
Me: You felt I was putting you down?
H: Everytime you say "I feel".
Me: ok I will work on that. I dont remember stating anything with you feel but I will he more mindful.

Sometime later.

H: KC, I am trying to respect you wishes. Also understand that I have thing at the house that i will need. I am try not to interrupt your life, but also understand I will be moving soon "I hope" when I do we will go through everything and dividing everything. I would prefer we do that alone with no one else there.

He used by name... he is trying to appeal to me genuinely.

It gets to me... but not to him. He is in love with OW.

I have to work on being detached. I have to get my crap together and be business like.

I swear I was in a good place until he texted and then called yesterday.

Help me get back on that wagon.