Brought up the assets within the house. I asked her what she was thinking about some of the assets, like the beds (something we would both need) for example. She just said she wanted to keep the tempurpedic (one she had before we got together, and also the one I'm sleeping in now), but that I could have whatever else I wanted. Then she said, other than that, she didn't really think there was much for us to split (I'm taking that to mean she thinks it's pretty obvious what belongs to who). For the most part, that's probably correct, though, I wonder about the TVs now, and there is a movie theater in our basement that I pretty much want anything that's not structurally attached. She may be okay with that, since she hasn't really been down there except maybe once or twice since our daughter was born (part of the whole distancing thing she started doing after giving birth).
I didn't bring up the theater yet. My lawyer never called today. I want to speak with her, and talk to my coach again.
Then she asked, "Why? Are you planning on leaving? You can stay, at least until she (D) is old enough for me to explain to her what's going on."
To the beds, I said that made sense, I could understand why she wanted to keep that one. And she laughed and said, "it's a nice bed, isn't it?" Honestly, it's a little hot for my tastes.
To the leaving, I said, there were advantages to that, but I wasn't sure what I'd do. Then she joked about me getting an apartment right down the street so she'd be able to go to a better middle school (I'm not doing an apartment - ever).
On a side note, I am now officially at my lowest weight since getting married.
