She declines, apologizes for sending me mixed signals, and says that she had a lapse in judgment. I foolishly try to reason with her about why having another dinner would be a good idea, and I impulsively call and text her (exactly the opposite of what I'm supposed to do). She, of course, maintains her cold and distant stance, and refuses to see me again.
Originally Posted by "Dbx80, yesterday"
I took that opportunity (since she reached out to me unprompted) to ask if she wanted to get dinner. She said "maybe another day." If you change your mind let me know.
Hi Dbx80, after a night of passion, it must be frustrating to find yourself rejected multiple times. She sounds lukewarm about you, and you sound head over heals about her. We all have to walk our own path, but this forum is here to help if a daily check-in would help you gal, find your center, and detach. Personal growth and giving someone who doesn't want you just now time to miss you can work wonders. Take care!
