Here is a question....after reading some other sites that talk about how the first step in my process is to get her back in the house to be able to work on the M. That being separated it makes it that much harder to reconcile.
Is it harder to R being separated or having my W in the home? She isn't coming in until she ends contact with the OM. That is my firm line. But waiting for a while after for MC and all seems counter-intuitive.
I am not even there yet but hearing to get her back in the house first just made me think.
