Well people who are divorcing and are sure of it just file the papers and let them get served (not sure of the process for you Vikes). Actions, not words. Don't tell her crap. Don't try to "set rules". You live in your house and you focus on you, you don't worry about her. You talk to her only on kids and you go about your life beyond that.

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* We will need to agree on loads of things for the kids schools, activities, shopping, savings (for future) etc

Prepare to not know all these answers right away. Prepare to get baited and act in accordance with your values. You will be tested.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.