Time to file? (Thanks BenB - part 2)

[Mumin]

Thanks again LH! I sure do!

So when the papers are ready, I would like some pointers on how I "present" them to her.
Either I just leave them out for her like its not a big deal or I take the opportunity to set some boundaries and tell her about my plan forward.
I think I will do the second approach, which means I need to prepare.

We will have a 6 month waiting period (by law) so untill then (sometime time in September or October) we will need some "ground rules".
* I will keep living in the house 100% and after the summer I will start actively looking for something new. She does whatever she needs to do.
* Till she has (or I have) moved out I will accept no phone calls or discussion about OM.
* During these 6 months thing will probably stay the same as now, but after I will not want to be her "friend". Contact about necessities and kids ONLY.
* We will need to agree on loads of things for the kids schools, activities, shopping, savings (for future) etc
* Today we are on a 2,2,3 schedule with the kids but when we live in separate places I will want to have weeks. Also expect this during the summer vacation.


Any pointers on the above or any tips for other threads to read for this stage?
Would like to bring up things that make me look strong and respectable.
Should I prepare an asset list? (We dont really have the same legal procedure here but it might still look strong and show I am mentally ready to move on. Which I actually dont think she is.). Likely, there will be no lawyers involved.