WW Patience, Limbo amd Fear

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You're not going to lose your daughter. What do you do for you, your W, and your family? Be a good, strong man. Detach. Become mentally strong. Excel in work, excel personal relationship, excel in financials, do everything you know you should. Grow, learn.

Everytime I feel detached, its like she senses it and acts differently, being kind and talkative. When i start to feel connected, she begins distancing. Is this the rest of my life if we fix the M? I can never be connected and loving? Whats the point?

Pursuit/distancer dynamic. Learn it, understand it, weaponize it. You are allow yourself to be a victim when you could be so much more.

Go read the chapter "It Takes One To Tango". When you change how you act it changes how others interact with you.

"Lead me, follow me, or get out of my way".