My XH seemed really happy also

He came and went as he chose, had no concern for his young children
I like you was heartbroken..He had his freedom, new fantasy life ect..and he believed it was the right choice
He thought everything would work out

fast forward to a few years ago
He left a VM saying he messed up
He was at that time addicted to prescriptions and alcohol
He M ow, and had heard from several sources he was completely miserable

MY point

If it is true MLC...they cant get from here to happy from leaving a M
and detroying a family

Very rarely have I seen that if ever

Im not wishing your H misery...but chances are the replay(happy mode) will be short lived

Stay on your path...You will find happiness from doing this work a
letting go and growth and change

He will find more of the same


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow