Kto, I have a daughter almost the same age. Between all the fun and joy, the caretaking can wear you down. After BD, I had quite a few days alone with both my kids and it was an amazing experience. The pain of BD was horrendous however I'll never forget that time alone with the kids.
Another perspective here....you are not allowing the W you know in to your house. It's almost someone else. A case of the body snatchers. Now, I bring this up for your D3. Think about how your W is treating you and what D3 will think is normal in a marriage, how to treat you or how to treat men. If your W can be normal and respectful then maybe it'll be ok. If you both will put up a bad example, it may not be worth it. Personally I wish my W left the house during my sitch. My D4 is picking up alot of distancing, avoidant and dont talk to dad behaviors and I hate my W for this. My relationship with D4 suffers because of my wifes selfishness.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
