Hey Kristin - just dropping in to see how it's going. Hope all is well in these crazy times.
Originally Posted by KristinG
She says all of the right things, makes promises that this will all just be a bump in the road, and promises that we will be back together. I believe that she feels those things in her heart, and I do hope she's right, but it has to be backed up by action. She needs to work on herself and work through her own issues and I need to move on and work on my own.
I would caution you about what you've written here. If you go back a few pages in your thread here, and then a few more pages in your other threads, you will see that you've written the same thing a few times.
From the outside it looks like you both are stuck in a pursuit-distancer dynamic. The pattern seems to be repeating itself. Have you read the resources here on pursuit and distance? They might help you in this instance.
I think the only way to get out of this dynamic is to break the pattern. It is a lot easier said than done, and unfortunately I cannot offer advice on how to do that in your situation because it is particular to only you and WW. I had to do it in my sit as well and it took me 6 excruciating months to figure out how - then another 6 months of intense pain to apply it to my sit.
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I have a birthday coming in the next week
Happy birthday! Hope you have a great day
Take care of yourself Kristin. Don't forget to do things for you - focus on you and what you need
