At this point I shouldn't ASSume anything. It's been about a month since his last "no show" whereas it was about every two weeks up till now.
I do do a lot of ASSuming when my H is out and about when in reality I have no idea where he goes, what he does, who he sees. If he's telling me the truth when he says he was at "his bar" as he could be anywhere.
Last week he was off from work all week, but was home every night. Now H is back at work and isn't busy, so has lots of time to sit and think...something about that darn crane.
