I definitely take EA seriously. The fantasy part just opens the door to everything else. And blinds her to the destruction her actions can cause Since posting, I have come across evidence that fully confirms EA and some may point to PA. It's even possible she went to see OM tonight. I am just trying to make it day by day. I don't really know how to proceed. DB'ing seemed to have some positive effect. She recently told me she might consider waiting more time before pursuing divorce. I have some evidence she was let down/rejected by OM a few days before this statement, so I'm treating it like temp checking. I am so angry and hurt bc she cut me off sexually for so long and could very well be giving her body to some OM with no investment in her life. Trying to decide if I would even take her back of she wanted to work things out. I don't know if I could ever look at her the way a husband views a wife again. The way she has snuck around and (poorly) hidden her actions makes me want to cut her off and let her pursue this meaninglessness while I build a better life for me and my son. I got on this forum to help me save my marriage, but I fear my WW is making decisions I will not be able to forgive/come back from. Being cut off sexually for so long only to be cheated on cuts me deep. I don't know if I'll be able to look at her again without thinking about how she has been with OM. I
