You've also verbally told her she would have to go NC with OM (however you said it). Right? It is a moral issue,
I have told it is unacceptable for me to have contact with him. I have said that from the beginning. Then with the health scare, I let her in to hang out a bit as a family since that is al in our social bubble and all. But after she told me last night she was still in contact, I told her to leave.
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The first determining factor, IMHO, will be her actions. Will she cease her immoral conduct, or will she continue down that path? Whichever way she chooses, you know you will never revise or compromise this particular, life long boundary on this one issue, b/c of your own moral values. Does this make sense?
It makes total sense. But it goes back to my question above, should I ask to go to MC again? She was more open there than anywhere else. The therapist holds her accountable and states over and over she needs to end the A However, after advice on the board and going with her 3 times after BD, I said I wouldn't go with her anymore.
