honestly, i told very few people. if people asked where my h was, I said on a business trip. I wanted to give him every opportunity to be able to back track and frankly didn't want the pity of others nor their input into my marriage.

i don't regret it. there are, even now, people who probably know, but not from me.

I agree with Job.
Your life. Your marriage. Your business.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver