First. WOW, REALLY FKN GREAT JOB! I'm impressed!

Keep listening to Sandi, just incredibly good advice for you atm.

In regards to "If she has to go to the office, then I will help out":
Be every clear on your terms here. I did the mistake of allowing too much manipulation here.
Definitely not helping her out any more. Not until I get some help in return.
Not to such a bad deal since I got more time with my D's, but it is not good DB to help out too much.
I would consider adding to your "helping out terms" that you will only be helping because of "essential job" during Corona.

Sandi, u mind giving my thread a visit? smile (begs)


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021