I also agree with Ellie; your H has been doing this for a long time (as has mine) and it might be time to do something different!
Quoting KAW:
Quote: "OK, I'm putting my foot down on this once and for all so there is no more doubt in your mind what I want. I want you to stay! I want you in my bedroom! I want you to be my H!" < Maybe plant a big juicy one at this time> "So I'm not gonna kick you out and I don't want to D you."
