I get it he is being NICE in efforts to NICE me back to being a doormat.
Love it! You are sounding strong today.
Originally Posted by KitCat
He texted me to let him know when he could pick up his stuff... no response... he can drive by and see the trash bags on the porch.
I'd be careful on this--you'd probably be liable and in the wrong if his things were to be stolen, damaged by weather, pests, etc. because you left them in a vulnerable position. I love your not letting him enter and leave as he pleases and use your residence for storage.
I see your point and that is why I stressed to him about scheduling a time that works for us both. He refused. And, I knew he was in town already.
I'm also in a high end neighborhood last house on dead end... my porch is also somewhat obstructed from street. It's a protected area.
I would have packed more but he was being pushy and I had to get to work... go buy a new toothbrush...
