I get it he is being NICE in efforts to NICE me back to being a doormat.
Love it! You are sounding strong today.
Originally Posted by KitCat
He texted me to let him know when he could pick up his stuff... no response... he can drive by and see the trash bags on the porch.
I'd be careful on this--you'd probably be liable and in the wrong if his things were to be stolen, damaged by weather, pests, etc. because you left them in a vulnerable position. I love your not letting him enter and leave as he pleases and use your residence for storage.