Quote: H knows I want him there, but I didn't say that to him.
Quote: You know this has always been an ongoing issue with my H. First it was I'm moving out, I'm divorcing you, if this or that happens I'm done, pretty much since I met my H and throughout our whole marriage. Any time there were problems "I'm getting a divorce"
Maybe I'm nuts but I'm hearing a guy who's terrified of being abandoned, who wants to leave first before you can hurt him by leaving, and who is desperately trying to get you to say that you DON'T want him to leave, that you still love him and want him.
