I'd recommend not contacting him. He's no longer your friend or confidant to help you work through your emotions. Calling him out isn't going to help you detach and move on or detach and reconcile.
Yes he is no longer my friend or someone to help me deal with my emotions. You are right.
Its hard when you talk to one person and vice versa. Its still hard not to open up to them and look at them for a way through this.
I need to print this out.
He doesn't get to have access to my emotions any more. Those I have to keep private. This is an excellent point.