Update sincd thet w=start of this message....she just texted and daid she will be here (my house) in the morijng to talk. What do I do??????
If you have to engage--and it's likely you will at some point if she has the right to enter the home and/or because you share children--listen, validate, then leave the situation. If you can't retreat into your home, then maybe you can retreat into a bedroom. Try to avoid on-the-spot decisions or emotes.
