It's been 8 weeks at most... wasn't May's H involved for 2yr???
Of course he is not at a point of ending it... he is still dealing with trying to get some space and control of his situation... OW is his emotional support dog.
I surprised him by being strong enough to file.
I will surprise him by not allowing him to come and go as he pleases... he is kicked out the door.
I deserve better. I cannot compete with OW and I won't even try. I know my value and worth and what I brought to the relationship. He was so lucky to have landed me... I'm not perfect but I have always loved and he ored my H.
Good luck getting me to unlock those funds.... you are not BUYING her a house.