I responded to her "I'm coming by to talk tomorrow" with "please respect my boundaries and do not come."
She replied with "you have to help me when I have to work and you know that." Then she said, " this was supposed to be about our D and you made it about you." She is referring to helping me by coming by the house after work. And by me stating my boundaries (NC with the OM, MC, etc), she says I'm making it about me. Early, during the fight, I told her I don't want her help and I don't want her in the house ever again.
I did not respond to any of her texts after asking her to respect my boundaries. Between numerous calls and texts, I ignored her.
