Quick update: After the fight/argument (see above), my W called 25 times....I didn't pick up. She texted numerous times asking to speak to our D. I didn't respond. She texted if I didn't respond, she would come back to my house. She texted she would call the police. I didn't respond. Finally, at 8 pm (the calls started at 7:35), I texted back and said FaceTime at 8pm (our normal time to FT). I had my D FT with her and I walked away. I could tell my W was hanging on to talk to me after...I didn't talk to her and hung up.
Immediately after the call, she texted and said: "eat S#it". Then she texted and said, you have to help me on the days I have work or I will move into the basement (my house). I didn't respond.
honestly, I don't know how to respond but I can hear all of you telling me to ignore her anger, calls, and texts. I cannot accept her still talking/seeing the OM. I can't.
Should I watch my D on the days my W is supposed to have her but still has to go to work? Honestly, I think she is working from home (her parent's house) the next couple days so the BS about her needing help or she will move into the basement seems like crap to me.
I feel slightly empowered by setting my boundaries and expectations and telling her to leave and never come back until she does. I hope I feel this way tomorrow.
Update sincd thet w=start of this message....she just texted and daid she will be here (my house) in the morijng to talk. What do I do??????
