To clarify the funds are actually "his". He put them in a joint account but I always referred to them as "his". The plan was he was going to leave the funds and at retirement buy a fun toy with them.
I'm being proactive and locking everything down -- remember he wanted to be amicable and share the atty and go through this together... then I got the crappy texts being all accusative and what not. He got very defensive and more mysterious about everything so I locked it up.
Is there part of me that is wanting to block this house purchase??? I think there is to some degree.
What are my motives here??? I am trying to work through that.
