I could also release funds for him to buy house but she suggested I make him get those funds outside marital assets.
Great--so attorney suggests DO NOT release marital funds. Sounds wise.
Originally Posted by KitCat
He is texting today asking if the order was lifted --- of course the answer is NO because courts are closed.
Why reply? If he's really curious he could check the court website, ask your attorney, or ask his attorney. If you must reply, a simple "No" answers the question without another dramatic exchange.
Originally Posted by KitCat
1) I have authorization for him to pay off vehicles AND then see if he steps up and does that.
You say you want to reconcile--that involves dropping the rope and letting him miss you, not setting tests to see if he "steps up". Can't this wait 3-6mo to be handled together with other financial matters?
Originally Posted by KitCat
I imagine when its just okay to pay off the vehicles but his funds are still frozen he will just say F that and go back to being dark... OR do I give him the chance to show me he will pay off the vehicles???
