Just spoke to W for a short while (before she headed of to the cabin for the night...) Earlier she asked how I felt and I said I feel good. Exchanges some corona dialogue and right before she was leaving I asked how do YOU feel?
She looked really happy in her face and let off a big sigh. When she started speaking she was on the verge of crying and said last week was really tough. So I asked why. W - I thing I havnt let myself mourn/plain/grieve as much as you have. One needs to do that, and it is very heavy. Me - Yes it is. I understand it is tough. W - Saw some pictures, read some old things. Really tough. Quiet for a long time. Me - Don't know what to say. W - I get that. Some more words, then good night.
Feels like I shouldnt have asked her how she feels.. Sure didnt help me. What is your take on this?
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021