Yup... we were the same way... I paid everything in full every month.
He wants control of his life and he is racking up his credit card.
Perhaps she has done this more than I thought and she just never mentioned it. She is definitely less frugal than I am, but she makes quite a bit. I am about to give her the last couple of utilities (that I considered mine just because it's more in line with my areas of knowledge) - satellite and internet, as well as the insurance bill (minus my car's portion). I had held onto that when she initially asked for it, but that last payment was 6 months ago. If she wants it, she can have it.
