So my H calls me this morning...asks how S was this morning. S hurt his little toe last night and so I took him to UrgentCare, he was fine. Better safe than sorry.
Then H says "so when do you want to talk about this move thing without our S around?" I say "again?" and then say just say when. H says no you decide you're the one that's busy all the time, then repeats what I said "again?" I said well it's your decision. I don't remember what H said but WHY does HE KEEP DOING THIS!! I was off for three days last week, H was off all last week! He could have taken care of it then, we could have talked then I was around, H was turkey hunting.
I said what about tomorrow night? H wouldn't commit. I said what about after S goes to bed to which H said "no I go to bed at that time, too!" So if he wants to talk about moving, he sure doesn't seem to want to do it anytime soon or wants to do it on his schedule or maybe just wanted me to beg him to not move out.
Then he says "what do you want?" "Everything?" (in the house). At that point I told H I couldn't talk about it now. I'm at work.
H knows I want him there, but I didn't say that to him. H is sleeping downstairs because of his own choice. Everything H is doing is pushing me away and then he's going to blame it all on me.
Maybe I should ask him to move back upstairs again? I haven't visited him and he hasn't visited me either. S fell asleep with H last night and I went down to bring him up to his bed and H looked like he was just laying there thinking.
