Yes with my XW I did the first move. After she moved out, she sent me breadcrumbs for 6 months, but without showing any intention to work on R. At one point I felt I had enough and told her I wanted a D and she calmly said OK. In 6 months she had never pronounced the word D. Who knows what would have happened had I waited. At least I think that D helped move on and gave me peace of mind. I would be interested to know what Sandi2 has to say about WAW or WW who move out but don’t take any action towards D.
