Well H showed up shortly before I was putting S4 to bed. H was at his bar, drinking I assume. I don't have to ask sometimes S4 hounds him. Told his dad he smelled like pizza and H said "pizza" and then asked me if he smelled like pizza. I smelled his shirt and said "you smell like a bar!"
H layed with S4 until he fell asleep, then went off to his bedroom..thought maybe he'd stop and see me. It's been over a week since we've so H must not be missing it too much.
I got up earl to do the treadmill, H came down to see me, irritated, took my book that I had on the treadmill threw it on the chair, says to me "what lies did you tell you family as to why I wasn't there?" I said I didn't lie, just said you didn't come. Then H wanted to know who was there, who asked about him. I hope some day H will feel comfortable enough to come to my family functions. Which makes me wonder why it was so easy for H to take S to OW's last Mother's Day, where her family was gathered? Just thinking about it makes me uncomfortable, a married man bringing his S to OW's house, oh yeah, forgot he let our S sleep there one night, also!!! Just shows they were not THINKING of anyone but themselves!!!
Oh and H just called her to chat. Asked me if I had my lawyer lined up? I said for what? H said for your lawyer for your divorce? I said "should I?" then told H I had to get work.