Ur getting AWESOME advice from Sandi here KT. Read the "newcomer with WW threads"! They help a lot with mindset.
Can you please explain WHY living arrangements would have to change because of a lockdown? My understanding is that when W has your D they are currently living somewhere else? Why cant W keep living at other place? Why wouldnt you be able to "switch" during a lockdown? Are they going to force every single separated/divorced parents to not switch for several weeks?
Forced to be a family? Do you ACTUALLY think of that in a positive manner?
My biggest learning with my WW. IF you stand your ground without being rude she will respect you. She knows what shes done. Three weeks ago I was VERY scared to throw W out of MBR. Afraid of a confilct/fight. Just stood my ground. Said I am sleeping in my bed, and now she has moved out to our cabin the days she is here. No fight.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021