Ur getting AWESOME advice from Sandi here KT.
Read the "newcomer with WW threads"! They help a lot with mindset.

Can you please explain WHY living arrangements would have to change because of a lockdown?
My understanding is that when W has your D they are currently living somewhere else?
Why cant W keep living at other place?
Why wouldnt you be able to "switch" during a lockdown?
Are they going to force every single separated/divorced parents to not switch for several weeks?

Forced to be a family? Do you ACTUALLY think of that in a positive manner?

My biggest learning with my WW.
IF you stand your ground without being rude she will respect you. She knows what shes done.
Three weeks ago I was VERY scared to throw W out of MBR. Afraid of a confilct/fight.
Just stood my ground. Said I am sleeping in my bed, and now she has moved out to our cabin the days she is here.
No fight.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021