He’s convinced D14 that he’s going to stay home, that he’s going to take this seriously, that he’s going to do the right thing. She knows about the OW but he doesn’t know that. I believe to keep her from moving in with me he will stay home...more but who knows how long it will last.

I’ve seen him be a decent parent for a month but that was when he could still hook up with the OW at his house. S19 caught him (H doesn’t know) so he had to move his fun elsewhere. At that point he was gone all the time.