You already seem fairly grounded, especially being so new
Some people do get back together after affairs and D
This board is only a fraction of people in MLC- I personally have a very good friend whose XH is still trying to get her back they are good friends, but she is done
but it is usually a long and bumpy road
Best to continue to do as you r detaching letting go
creating new hobbies and ways to confort yourself prayer, meditation, yoga ect
I just bought a coloring book, I have learned to play music and am practicing more meditation than ever during these stressful times
Keep coming here to vent and get ideas
all the best..
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow