Yesterday, my W came by with my D and they stayed for an hour or two while we all hung out in the backyard. I didn't talk about us, the future, the OM, or anything like that. Being around each other is new to me while DB'ing so I'm not sure how to do it. I just focused on logistics and the craziness with the Corona stuff.
My W is the one who reached out to me saying she heard they are requiring everyone to stay home sometime this weekend, bought a bunch of groceries, and brought them over. She said she will have to move in if that happens. I'm trying not to read into it but how can I not? She can't see the OM because bars are closed and she is a fanatic about social distancing...I guess she could still see him but I really don't think she is.
If she moves in, I need to treat her like a roommate, right? Be kind, but not loving, supportive, but not overly helpful? She still hasn't processed any of the A with me but somehow I feel like this is a step in the right direction. Trying to DB in this crazy health scare isn't anything anyone has done before. I can't even file divorce papers if I wanted to...the courts are closed. I swear things happen for a reason and it's lining up that my W has to move in, can't see the OM, and forced to be a family. Am I wrong?
She's coming back today with my daughter to hangout. Social distancing has made it impossible to hangout with others, easily and we agreed we are in the same social bubble.
