Jason88, thanks for the response. I work in a field that is highly involved in what is going on lately so I’ve been so busy this week it’s been easy for me to just put this whole situation with my wife on the back burner. Am I 100% sure I want a divorce? No, I can’t say that I am, but I agree the limbo period is very difficult. I think right now, I’m so focused on work, I will just keep that focus and see if I hear anything from her rather than pushing it any further.

So with your XW, did you have to make the move to make it final? I will say that is just so confusing to me, if someone wants out, won’t talk to me for an entire month, what is the point in not just ending it? So odd...

Sandi2, thank you for checking in! I’m doing well, just very busy these days, thank goodness I have the weekend to recharge a bit.