Just Keep Swimming: Detaching, LRT 2

[oceangrl]

OG I don’t know what it is like where you are but are people really still making uneccesry travel? If poss I would just say nothing, and let him get on with it, Surely he won’t go through with booking anything given the state of affairs. Or just say that whilst you won’t stop H going, at this uncertain and fluid time, you feel it is important for your children to remain in a safe and familiar place, for their own well-being. How old is your son ?

Try not to think about D. Focus on you , your family, your community , let him get on with whatever he wants to do. You are allowed to be firm about what you believe to be in the best interests of your children.

Keep going, you are already one step ahead of most people in this pandemic because you know how to act rationally, focus and be strong , and these will get you through whatever crisis unfolds now x

thanks Pommy -- I would say most people seem to be taking it seriously, but a few are traveling for business or to get home to stay together. My H works in a part of the country where they don't seem to be taking it as seriously yet, but I think that is cracking down. My son is 11.

I am going to try and stay in the present and focus there. Good advice.