beware being on a pedestal. the fall is usually not pretty. time is your friend. use it wisely, as I know you will.

I was a perfectionist until I had my son. he beat it out of me, thank God.

I was raised by a man who said if I couldn't do something perfectly, I shouldn't do it at all. I love my dad to pieces and respected him and took it to heart.. My son taught me the futility of perfectionism. I'm grateful to him for that every single day. my life is a lot easier now.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver