OG I don’t know what it is like where you are but are people really still making uneccesry travel? If poss I would just say nothing, and let him get on with it, Surely he won’t go through with booking anything given the state of affairs. Or just say that whilst you won’t stop H going, at this uncertain and fluid time, you feel it is important for your children to remain in a safe and familiar place, for their own well-being. How old is your son ?

Try not to think about D. Focus on you , your family, your community , let him get on with whatever he wants to do. You are allowed to be firm about what you believe to be in the best interests of your children.

Keep going, you are already one step ahead of most people in this pandemic because you know how to act rationally, focus and be strong , and these will get you through whatever crisis unfolds now x


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020